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After you hit 40 your sex life will slowly die and there is nothing you can do about it.

This is something I knew I had to accept.

Just a little less drive here, a softer erection here and there, it felt like normal aging, you know?

I started telling myself: "this is just how your life is now, Ronny."

I’d come home exhausted, barely had the energy to interact with the kids, and the intimacy with my wife started feeling forced.

I remember one night she comes after shower and sits on me, and my body just did not respond.

I could feel her disappointment, even though she tried to hide it.

That hits harder than anything.

The confidence I’d built over decades, at work, with friends, in the bedroom — it started slipping away.

I caught myself avoiding mirrors, avoiding conversations about “us” and sex, and I even stopped signing up for weekend hikes or gym sessions because I didn’t feel strong or capable anymore.

I tried a few things at first like cutting back on alcohol, sleeping more, on a schedule but nothing much really helped.

Then buddy at work mentioned shilajit. Honestly, I was desperate at this point and would try anything to restore my "hunger for life."

Yes, I’ve tried some supplements before, and they never changed anything.

So I did give it a shot...

First week felt like nothin' is happening, but I did promise myself to give it a proper 1-month shot.

Around end of week 2 I started noticing subtle changes. Waking up in the morning, I actually felt alert instead of groggy. Suddenly I had more patience with the kids and actually wanted to go do something after work, which hadn’t happened in ages.

And then... week 3... quiet Wednesday evening... my wife is changing before bed…

Previously I wouldn't even see it, probably would be consumed by my phone or a book.

But now, suddenly her curves seem waaay more appealing than anything I could find on YouTube.

I felt it in my pants and with my whole body.

When she noticed, she looked back, smiled, and said “Why you look at me like that?”

I hadn’t said a word back.

And I'm not gonna write here about what happened next...

The stamina returned too. Not just in bed, but in life. I felt focused, decisive, and alive again.

For the first time in years, I felt like myself again. Sharp, always horny, always hungry ex-marine with a fat pack of ambitions that are hard to swallow.

But also present, and emotionally connected to my wife in a way that had been missing for far too long.

If after reading this you think this is just about sex, you've missed the point.

It’s confidence, energy, and being the husband and man you want to be. Himalayan shilajit didn’t just fix my libido, but it fixed the way I show up in life.